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Wedding Day Timeline and Run Sheet (With Examples for a 3pm and 4pm Ceremony)

Sample wedding day timelines for a 3pm and a 4pm ceremony, how long each part really takes, sunset and daylight saving, and a run sheet template for your MC.

By Caitlin & Nicolas · · 6 min read

In short

A typical Australian wedding day runs about eight hours from the ceremony to the last song. A common shape: ceremony at 3 or 4pm (20 to 30 minutes), an hour of drinks and photos, guests seated about 90 minutes after the ceremony starts, entrée, speeches between courses, cake, first dance and dancing, and a send-off around 11pm. Work backwards from your venue's finish time and forwards from your ceremony, then write it all into a run sheet your MC and suppliers can follow.

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Below are two sample timelines, how long each part really takes, and a run sheet template to copy.

Timeline vs run sheet

  • Your timeline is the day at a glance: the big moments and roughly when. It's for the two of you, your families and your guests (a simple version goes on your wedding website).
  • Your run sheet is the detailed version for the people running the day: your MC, the venue coordinator, the photographer, the DJ or band. It lists every cue, who does what and who to call if something slips.

How long each part takes

Part of the day Allow Notes
Hair and makeup 45–60 min per person Start early; the person getting married goes second-last, not last
Getting-ready photos 45–60 min Details, the dress or suit, family moments
Travel to the ceremony Real travel time + 15 min More on a Saturday in summer
Guests arrive 20–30 min before Your website should say "arrive by", not the start time
Ceremony 20–30 min Including signing; longer for religious ceremonies
Congratulations and group photo 15–20 min Straight after the ceremony, while everyone's together
Family photos 20–30 min Have a list and someone who knows everyone
Couple photos 30–60 min Often during drinks, plus 15 min at sunset
Drinks and canapés 60–90 min Guests' favourite part; don't go much longer
Entrée, main and dessert 2–2.5 hours with speeches Speeches between courses keep the night moving
Speeches 30–40 min in total Ask each speaker for 3–5 minutes
Cake, first dance 15 min Often together, before the dance floor opens
Dancing 1.5–2.5 hours The rest of the night
Send-off 10 min Sparklers, a guard of honour, or just a wave

Sample timeline: 3pm ceremony

Time What's happening
9:00am Hair and makeup start
12:30pm Photographer arrives for getting-ready photos
2:00pm Leave for the ceremony
2:30pm Guests arrive
3:00pm Ceremony
3:30pm Congratulations, group photo
3:45pm Family photos, then drinks and canapés for guests; couple photos
5:15pm Guests seated
5:30pm Couple enter; entrée
6:15pm First speeches
6:45pm Main course
7:30pm More speeches
7:45pm Sunset photos (time it to the season)
8:15pm Cake cutting and first dance
8:30pm Dance floor opens, dessert served
10:45pm Last song
11:00pm Send-off

Sample timeline: 4pm ceremony

Time What's happening
10:00am Hair and makeup start
1:30pm Getting-ready photos
3:00pm Leave for the ceremony
3:30pm Guests arrive
4:00pm Ceremony
4:30pm Congratulations, family photos, drinks and canapés
6:00pm Guests seated, couple enter, entrée
6:45pm Speeches
7:15pm Main course
8:00pm Speeches, then sunset photos if the light allows
8:30pm Cake, first dance, dancing
11:15pm Last song
11:30pm Send-off

A 2pm ceremony is the same shape an hour earlier, with a longer gap before dinner; fill it with a longer drinks hour or lawn games rather than leaving guests waiting.

Sunset, daylight saving and the heat

  • Sunset. Golden hour is the photographer's favourite light, and sunset times swing by hours between summer and winter. Look up sunset for your date and town, then plan 15 minutes of couple photos around it.
  • Daylight saving. Queensland, Western Australia and the Northern Territory don't use daylight saving, so a summer wedding in Brisbane or Perth gets dark earlier than one in Sydney or Melbourne. Check your date if guests are coming from interstate.
  • Summer heat. A 3pm ceremony in January sun is hard on guests and on the two of you. A later ceremony, or one in the shade, makes a big difference.
  • Winter. It can be dark by 5:30pm in the south. Move photos earlier, or plan for night photos with the venue's lights.

Your ceremony includes signing the marriage paperwork in front of two witnesses. Allow five minutes for it in the ceremony, choose your witnesses before the day and tell your celebrant who they are. Your celebrant lodges the paperwork afterwards. Our guide to choosing a wedding celebrant covers what they handle.

Run sheet template

Copy this into a document or spreadsheet and send it to your MC, venue coordinator, photographer and DJ or band two weeks before the day.

Time What Who Notes
2:30pm Guests arrive, ushers hand out programs Ushers Reserve the first two rows for family
2:55pm Celebrant welcomes guests, asks for phones away Celebrant
3:00pm Processional starts Musician / DJ Song: …
3:25pm Signing Celebrant, witnesses Witnesses: …
3:30pm Recessional, confetti DJ Song: …
5:15pm MC asks guests to take their seats MC
5:30pm Couple enter MC, DJ Song: …
6:15pm Speeches: parent, best friend MC 3–5 min each
7:30pm Speeches: the couple MC Thank suppliers and family
8:15pm Cake cutting, first dance MC, DJ Song: …
10:45pm Last song DJ Song: …
11:00pm Send-off MC, venue Sparklers handed out at 10:50pm

Also list on the run sheet: every supplier's name and mobile number, the venue's finish time, dietary notes for the caterer, who takes the wishing well and the gifts home, and who's in charge if you're busy. For when to book each of those suppliers, see our month-by-month planning checklist.

A run sheet for your MC

Your MC needs more than times. Give them the pronunciation of every name they'll say, who's giving each speech and in what order, any announcements (where the bathrooms are, when the bus leaves), and the one thing they must not forget. A short phone call a week before helps more than another email.

Put the timeline on your website

Guests need a simple version: what time to arrive, when the ceremony starts, when dinner is, and when the bus or last drinks are. Add a run sheet to each event on your free wedding website and it shows under that event, so nobody has to ask.

Add your timeline to your website

Quick questions

How long does a wedding day usually run?

About eight hours from the ceremony to the last song, with the ceremony at 3 or 4pm and guests seated for the reception about 90 minutes after it starts.

What's the difference between a timeline and a run sheet?

The timeline is the day at a glance for you and your guests. The run sheet is the detailed version for your MC, venue, photographer and DJ, with every cue and contact.

When should we send the run sheet to suppliers?

About two weeks before the day, to your MC, venue coordinator, photographer and DJ or band, with every supplier's mobile number on it.